I do not remember who said that today's fathers are the new adventurers of modern times. That may be true. The way we are today Daddy seems very different from our fathers and light years from that of our grandfathers. The major theorists of child development, Winnicott, Dolto etc., were based on family patterns that exist virtually today. Dads have changed significantly since at least twenty years and this is not a scoop.
It is certainly true of the social milieu in which I move. Around my friends and colleagues-dads that combine work and family life, sharing household chores with Madame (more or less, no exaggeration!), Cooking, child rearing. But who bathe their babies, changing diapers, getting up during the night for the bibis, read stories, go to the pediatrician.
Dads today are a few moms in some cases. Let psychologists supposedly tragic consequences of these developments. Anyway Dad can sometimes appear to be a second job, with its daily obligations, its high responsibilities, his salary (payroll is done in kisses, the universal currency runs very stable)
What moms do not feel neglected at this stage of reading, I do a little deliberately did not talk about it.
Being a father is an adventure. May sometimes be experienced as a big sacrifice. There are days of the blues like that. But finally it is perhaps the blow to speak with a touch of humor in describing this or that anecdote paramount in my life dad.
This blog is therefore likely to evolve and take a few steps from lobby municipal kindergarten. I thought ...
It is certainly true of the social milieu in which I move. Around my friends and colleagues-dads that combine work and family life, sharing household chores with Madame (more or less, no exaggeration!), Cooking, child rearing. But who bathe their babies, changing diapers, getting up during the night for the bibis, read stories, go to the pediatrician.
Dads today are a few moms in some cases. Let psychologists supposedly tragic consequences of these developments. Anyway Dad can sometimes appear to be a second job, with its daily obligations, its high responsibilities, his salary (payroll is done in kisses, the universal currency runs very stable)
What moms do not feel neglected at this stage of reading, I do a little deliberately did not talk about it.
Being a father is an adventure. May sometimes be experienced as a big sacrifice. There are days of the blues like that. But finally it is perhaps the blow to speak with a touch of humor in describing this or that anecdote paramount in my life dad.
This blog is therefore likely to evolve and take a few steps from lobby municipal kindergarten. I thought ...
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